Had a good convo with my w this afternoon on the phone. Surprisingly she called me at home, I was out running along the canal and did not get her message until later on in the day. Returned the call a couple of hours later, after I put myself in the proper frame of mind.
She called to discuss the paperwork I had sent her earlier in the week dealing with the upcoming sale of our cabin in PA. Since she is on the deed as owner of record, our realtor wanted her to sign and fill out all necessary paperwork. We passed the time making small talk, weather, how our dog was doing, whether she had joined a gym, etc. She volunteered that she has still not been able to find a job out there. It has been 1 month that she moved, and I think she is getting a little frustrated that she hasnt found anything yet.
She asked how my work is going, and how I was doing. I was upbeat throughout, and ended the convo on a good note. She also apparently called my SIL yesterday(bros wife). She has made it pretty clear that she is out there to stay, does not seem to be deviating from her desire to be out of jersey(can't say I completely blame her there lol!)She asked SIL to send her photos of her kids, and also asked her if she had talked to me.
So, one month into our long distance sep. Of course, I miss her dearly, but it is apparent that this is something she must do. Don't know what our future holds, but am pretty sure it is not going to take place here in jersey. I know I must give her space, and have so far not initiated any phone calls or other communications. She has initiated all comm.
Advice needed, is it time for me to initiate some contact, via email, or would this be construed as pursuing?
Guess I can say I am at least happy that all of our convos have been positive since she left. No spewing, or screaming or unpleasant words. Well, thanks for listening everyone
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
