I'm still here-again

[workinghardguy]

I hear you DG... I have the same fears... It's like, what must be wrong with you?

But I tell you what... from a guy's perspective, I wouldn't take two divorces as a deal-breaker. It all depends on what went on and how you reacted. If a woman tells me she's divorced twice b/c both husbands couldn't meet her needs and so she cheated on both of them (oh wait... that's my W!) I'd probably run away as fast as my legs will carry me. Or if there are chemical dependency issues that caused both divorces... well, same thing.

But if the story is that the second one really was an awakening. It helped her understand herself and engage in personal growth... that's different. A lot would also depend on how we had clicked and how I felt. I'm not sure that I'd toss out there that you're twice divorced on the first date but if it comes up, it comes up. But if there's a connection, just being twice divorced isn't going to be a deal-breaker to me.

Of course maybe that's because I could be twice divorced myself soon