Last R talk I expressed concern about how this would effect the kids. Her evidence that they would come through this ok is to look and see how well SS and SD have done since she left their dad nine years ago... ... ... ummm, you mean the kids where I've been in their lives for 75% and 90% of their time on the planet? Yes, that's exactly the same as you going off to be a single mom. W..T..F..
W was sharing this past week with a friend about our upcoming divorce. She told him "we're definitely getting divorced around Juneish". He thought it weird that she put "definitely" in the sentence but then waffled on the date. He hadn't expressed any thoughts or reservations about it so he was confused by the "definitely". He said it sounded like she was trying to affirm to herself. Whatever. She is what she is.
I do feel better after my nap though, even if it was shortened. Unfortunately I just realized my GAL for the weekend is all blown up. I was supposed to be at a three-day search and rescue school this weekend. Then on Monday it got cancelled since Congress can't seem to get their stuff together and pass legislation funding the Defense Department on anything other than a stopgap basis. I was really looking forward to it too... there were going to be folks there I haven't seen since we were cadets together in the late 80s/early 90s. Then with the week of sick kids and whatnot I completely spaced the weekend.
So I guess tonight I'll take S to dinner and a movie. Tomorrow we'll put up Christmas decorations on the outside of the house. Not exactly tearing it up GAL, but still working on my bench and when plans blow up last minute I don't have many places to turn to yet.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
