Peicing and hoping I'm doing the right thing.

[FreeBird0120]

Thank you OT and J3B:

He insists that they only say Hi in passing or talk about work related things only...whether this is true or not I guess only time will tell.

I am trying so hard to be compassionate about this with him. But compassion vs. distrust don't usually go hand in hand, so it makes it very difficult.

The possibility of one of them changing jobs is slim, however, husband is trying to start a business which will hopefully enable him to leave by this time next year...so I guess I have quite a while before I feel comfortable about them not seeing each other every day. That's if I end up not being able to withstand this any longer...Like I said I don't know for sure whether or not they're still in contact, and H can tell me until he's blue in the face that they aren't other then hello's in passing, but I'm not sure how much more I will be able to handle. I'm trying to stay so strong, but this is agonizing...