Advice from successful DB'rs?

[PERSEVERANCE]

Hi Sad, great to hear from you. Pats- sounds like we're from the same neighborhood. Am I being too hopeful about the email content?... Of course I won't ask my W any R questions...but it sounded like there might be "something". GAL...as soon as I'm out of the sandbox(Afghanistan), which is very soon- I have my GAL planned... I'm in great shape already- but I'm signing up for Yoga, learning to snowboard ( my kids offered to teach me), will train for a marathon... & I've scheduled individual counceling appts- I don't mind if they put me on meds at all (depression/anxiety). Unfortunately- my wife is seeing a counselor that seems pro-divorce.... Before I learned the 180 rules/ when she first dropped the D word on me, I begged to go to a MC when I return-- she said no, too late. "believe none of what she says(negative stuff) & 1/2 of what she does" Oh well...backing off for now, give her space, gal & hopefully it all works out. How is your situation...sounds pretty good?