So big question for me...working on paying marital debt almost there. I have filed already he responded. That's it. He claims he doesn't want D-neither do I. But filing seemed to make him take notice a little.he is living with OW. Anyway..my question is I have one more debt to pay off. I did tell H as long as he doesn't change the way he's living and attempt to R I am moving forward with D. So he hasn't changed anything so do I remind him or bring it up or have L's contact each other and move forward? Thank u