Great to hear that you got that email from your W. It's time to GAL a life
I GAL like crazy. Always worked out but stepped it up like crazy. Got my 41 year old body looking like a 23 year olds (OK maybe a 32 year olds... lol).
Changed my diet, started taking protein, suppliments, etc.
Started a poker club with the guys in my neighborhood. 10 to 12 guys and we all play every month. Pleying tonight in fact.
I'm part of a neighborhood movie club. I know it sounds a bit odd but let me explain. About 10 guys meet at a house. Lots of beer, food and drink. hang and talk. Watch a movie and head home. Just a reason to get out and socialize.
I go to watch the Patriots play at a sports bar every week with the guys.
I joined a wine club and am learning to brew beer. Wife does this with me.
My daughter and I have a new tradition of watching a new scary movie every Saturday morning when we wake up complete with popcorn and soda.
My son and I play COD III for xbox till the wee hours. And he has started working out with me.
Build the life YOU want. A life anyone would be crazy to leave or not be a part of. And if at that point they DO leave, your new more fulfilling life stays in place.
Good luck!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012