I see him moving around alot, did you know this going in?
As an exterme introvert who needs alot of space...you're looking to change him?
I don't know Lewis.
You love him and you don't want to be hurt.
Well if you love him why do you want to change him? If he loves you well compromise comes into play here. Not wanting to be hurt? That's not part of life and certainly not part of love.
Did you heal? Not sure. No one (not many people) want to be alone, but the idea of being able to thrive on your own is a good goal to have.
If it turns out you NEED someone to be happy then...it becomes a problem of codependancy, and that isn't healthy for you or them.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
