As a husband with a higher sex drive than my wife, I'd be the grumpiest muther f-er in the world without...taking matters into my own hand.
Is that too much information? pfffpt. There is a point to be made here.
More info: Seeing two women together is a fantasy, and like some guys and some women I find it very attractive. However it is a fantasy and it is not something I want or desire of my wife.
There is a difference, its a big one. I don't want my wife to do that, but its still something I enjoy the concept of.
Guys are visual. Again; guys are visual. To this end that is why porn is so popular with guys.
Can it be addictive? Absolutely anything can become addictive. Is he replacing you with porn? If so then there is a problem. Is he using porn because you're not in the mood?
You know the answers to this better than any of us here. And it's not an answer you need to type out.
The world can talk about the difference between men and women, Mars and Venus...in this?
It can be a difference in high libedo and low libedo and that is not gender specific.
Is porn cheating? Is thinking of Brad Pitt during sex cheating? (Cause if it is, I guess I have been cheating ) (j/k for the peanut gallery go ahead and throw your easy insults)
Ultimately is he with you C? Take a look at his fantasy, is that really something you want to do? He might not want you too, and that is why it is a fantasy, and not reality.
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) (j/k for the peanut gallery go ahead and throw your easy insults)