Finally confronted H on affair...Now what????

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Mr. Bond

Thanks for the response and feedback. I had asked H why he wants to come over. It's really a convenience thing for him and for the kids as well.

He gets off work at 6, so gets to my place at 6:30. Since kids need to be in my place by 7:30 to go to bed (on weekdays), that only gives him 1 hr with the. If he has to take them to his place, by the time he leaves, gets them in the car and off the car, it would almost be time for him to drive back.

So that would not give him any quality time with them. I get that, so that is why I have agreed to let him come over. Besides, rainy season is starting and I also don't want the kids to be out when it rains, and is already dark outside. They are still very young.

So for everyone's benefit, the best is for him to come to my place. I feel comfortable with this and think it's the loving thing to do for my kids and my H as well.

I think I have the option of leaving if I want to, and that is what I am doing. Last night as soon as he arrived, I left to have dinner with a friend and will continue keeping myself busy and GAL. And some days, I can use those opportunities of maybe creating more connection with him.

Thanks for the advice and support!