Thanks for the tip! Since H did say that he specifically needed my help to understand love as a decision, just like many of the couples and a lot of the posters here, H thinks love is a feeling, and so I am hoping that he will want to go to that session. For now, I plan to bring a dvd of Fireproof on our Thanksgiving trip to Hawaii next week and watch it there, as well as read part of the Love Dare book together.
Sometimes it does help not to push; yesterday, before H left for his business trip, he told me he will try to get back today instead of tomorrow so we can attend the session this saturday! We do have 2 topics per post as well, so I am sure it will be arduous. We had planned to go next month to the session in another nearby town but I really would like to go back to the group we were with as I have gotten to know a little a few of the couples there, and there were several with the same ethnicity as we have.
We still have been doing well so far; a couple of times H was snippy and I did react, to H's credit he was the one who pulled back, told me not to they were just small things and not to make it bigger. He still (and maybe never will) does not apologize but he acts really nice after these incidents, so I know he is remorseful.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
