Gar it is good that you are optimistic. I think people here are careful when giving advice. I think most in here give us a sense of hope in our sitch. I was a mess when I came but getting stronger. Everyday with the help of others in here. Sometimes we will be confronted when needed. That may seem harsh when you are hurting. But challenging someone is a way to effect change in them. We are here to change right?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”