The first chapter I suppose

[mindfull]

Autumn... I hear ya about the holes!!! Glad you're okay... When I do Couch-to-5k I like to use one (that I can't name here because it sounds very controversial) because it is to current, and mostly rap music. It gets your blood flowing. I'm not a rap fan, in fact I hate the anger in it, but perfect for running off the "Ickies"!!!

What running shoes do you wear??

This is my favorite time to run, when it gets crisper... I even bought some lighter Marmot hikers because I could actually run in them, and they're water-proof.

You've convinced me to start again after I get moved and settled!

Moving stinks! I was in a one-year rental once we put the marital home on the market. The lease is up, and now I'm buying a house a block away. So I'm in the thick of painters, packing, utility moving, and... Still trying to work! The movers come Monday. Hope I'm ready!

I understand about the athletics involvement. I, too, was on the board of my boys' soccer club. I loved it. Loved the people, and using my business knowledge to help make the club better for my boys. XH didn't like me so involved. Not sure why. He traveled all week.

Funny. I thought we'd have all the time in the world once the kids were gone...

He never put them first, so that's where a lot if us fell apart.

It's good that your H is so involved. It's good he wants a life of his own, too.

So, where do you, and you two as a couple fit in to this??

I've LOVED being part of a really, strong caring couple. I can say now, that I've not really had it before. Priceless.

That's where 'your' work is.

(I won't keep badgering you, but I'd still like some proof that there's no one else involved. There are too many red flags, a history of it, etc... But, I'm also conscious of my possible transfer of accusation due to my own marital history. )

Be well, my friend. Off to start this chaotic day!