I am 45, he is 40, our child is 3. My older kids are 14 and 13 and my children are my first priority. I do the best I can with them and I am very sad that their fathers would not work with me, what does that^^^ mean? Did you want more than they can give or more than they wanted to give?
especially my ex-husband. I was a good wife for him and his second wife only put up with him 1/10 of the time I did. did you play ANY role in the demise of your marriage? And what about THIS R? Do you see any cause and effect between your behaviors and his choices? IF so, that's good news! It means you are NOT powerless.
you are the only person YOU control and if there is SOMETHING YOU CAN DO to change the dynamic, do it!
My older daughter feels that she has little or no chance of staying married because her father has divorced twice, both sets of her grandparents have been divorced.
that's a hell of a lot of divorce on both sides. Why? Any commonalities?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016