Hey Adniva, I think that was my post.

I was responding to "Sayitaintso's" lamenting the fact that his W seemed to be getting quite comfortable living in limbo as friends/roommates instead of as H&W. I agree that it would not be healthy to go back to the problems that lead them to their current situation. But how does living as friends/roommates get them closer to a Reconciliation?

So, my point was don't get too comfortable because there is still a lot of work to do.

Make sense?


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