He dumped me 3 1/2 years ago. I didn't see him and barely spoke with him for the last half of my pregnancy.
I feel that since we have a child, we have a moral obligation to do the best we can to give her stability and to me, the most stability we can give her is to commit to have a relationship that meets most of all of our needs. I am afraid that bringing another man into the picture to meet my needs may cause more problems and complications that it may solve, especially since he really doesn't want me bringing another man into our daughter's lives.
I think most men would not want a woman like me. 45, 3 kids still at home. Very busy being a mother.
I have never experienced a relationship that wasn't hard.
