Accuray, I'll provide you with some thoughts this weekend (H is traveling for work and very likely "pleasure" this weekend).

I can see a bit of myself in what I've quickly read about your wife. Even though I've been "LD" with my spouse, I had been tempted in a couple situations by other men (but carefully avoided letting anything happen). I think you are likely facing a combination of her issues and the downward spiral of your marriage.

Hang in there!


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012