This was way up several posts ago, but it struck me.
Quote:
I want my W back, not hanging out in a "better place."

Why would you want that, and why would she?

I know that's not how you meant it, but look at the words. You cannot go back to how things were. You have to be the better place, and she may notice and come back.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.