REQ: Looking for a thread from a fellow DBer...

[Abbey]

Just venting. Already the games have started. Stupid cow is leading him around by the nose. He was supposed to see his daughter today, and waited around and only got to see her for 5 minutes.

Of course on some level, in his mind, he'll rationalize it's my fault some how. If only I wasn't around, she would spend more time with him, and thus he would be able to see his daughter etc etc etc.

I'll see how his mood is when he comes home. I WISH he would buy me out so that I can detach completely from the sitch. The only way he's going to see her true colors is if I'm not around to conveniently "blame".

I ordered a copy of Not Just Friends yesterday. I read it when we split last time... time to really get my head wrapped around why he came to me to vent once I was out of the picture.

I said this in all my old 2008 posts. I need to have an affair with my H. That's what worked last time, I know that's exactly what will need to be done this time again. Smile, smooth paved road at home etc etc. "Just his Friend".