Are you kidding? I was Terrified the first time I went on a coffee date. And the second time too. Never dated much having married my high school sweetheart - it was way out of my comfort zone. But she will likely be nervous too. Every single person I met online was somewhat nervous in the beginning. It's is trying to find something to talk about that works. One guy I met in a coffee place called "Common Grounds" - that's really what it's about. You'll be fine!

On my first date with Josh (we actually started with a dinner date) - I just reminded myself that the worst that could happen would be that we wouldn't hit it off and there wouldn't be a second date. Obviously - that's not what happened.

Barb