This place has always been here for you to vent, and your advice is invaluable.
I'm not sure where this feeling of judgement is coming from though? Internally? Externally?
I don't know, but I do know this place is always here for you.
My only concern regarding the LBS is getting stuck and resigned to being stuck. Like it some sort of sentence that is unavoidable.
The idea isn't to be miserable for the rest of a life. Its to be ( )miserable for awhile and make significant changes during that time to see if anything changes.
Hope you stick around Fix.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK