Hey Dbers, I'm wondering whether it would be Ok to drop Wendy a short email Friday to say "see you tomorrow!" just to kind of re-confirm our coffee date. I've heard from others that no shows are not uncommon in the online dating world. So it's a way of me letting her know that I'm really intending to be there. In the past, I've had a habit of overdoing thoughtfulness, and I don't want to do that here, but it might be a nice gesture and I don't imagine too many other guys take the time to do it. Would it be a nice thing to do, too much or just not necessary? OMG, it's like being a teenager again! Lol.