and I do think that the betrayal, the rejection, is truly a fate worse than death. Unless the story is one like a co-worker of mine has.... where her H died in an accident then she found out that he had been betraying her, not with another woman, but financially .... robbing their family of their conjugal savings, sending their money home to his parents, and even compromising their family home! This woman was depressed for 7 years! then she married again, unfortunately, the new guy is also a jerk. She has sworn off men at this point.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go