Thanks everyone!

Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev

If a reconciliation was on the table that would be one thing

Yes, this is very key. This may change the picture entirely.

Originally Posted By: workinghardguy

I just look at them as people who put their pants on the same way I do

Love this attitude, WHG!

Originally Posted By: Rick1963

Keep getting a life and have as much fun as you can. She can either join you or not. But remember that God has a plan for you otherwise you and all of us would not be here.

Have you been reading my play book? Yes, that's the attitude I strive for!

Originally Posted By: In_Shock

the stability of having S's home not change (your house - his home) is important for him. Something has to be stable and reliable. You are his rock.

Thanks, IS! Yes, this is of the utmost importance. My decision will definitely be based on what's best for him. As much as my W will try to paint the picture that this is a good idea for everyone involved, where we live now is pretty much the only place he's ever called home. I know I'm up against a lot. She is a true salesperson, and she can paint a pretty good picture. He wasn't even 2 years old when we moved here.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26