Ok, quick update. Thinking about what sandi2 said about not using my dogs as a link to my ex, I called the vet's office and they can board there while I'm gone. Considering that I've already asked my ex to let them out for me, and she said yes, should I now just call her or text her and let her know that I got the problem figured out and she doesn't have to come by? Or should I just leave things the way they are? I know you guys are thinking that I overanalyze every move lol, but I just feel like since we're beginning to have civil conversations again, I don't want to make any wrong moves. Thanks!