Thanks JB, I am definitely waiting for that but trying to keep a positive attitude for now.
Had another very pleasant convo with H yesterday, a real head scratcher. We were talking about his work, and how he needs to get some life insurance policies to meet a quota by year's end. I asked if he still had a policy on me he got a couple of years ago. He said yes, and he may convert it to a whole term policy to build some money up in it for me.
Didn't sound like something you'd do for a STBX! I just responded casually, ok, whatever you need to do (it would help him meet his quota). Still not getting my hopes up too much, but it seemed like a positive sign.
We were also able to discuss visitation without it blowing up. Yea!! He is still being really nice- going to try and relax, trust God and have a nice holiday.