trust me - when they are done they are done. the name of this forum is in lots of ways a misnomer - i tried the divorce busting route without success - i think it might work pre-divorce, but afterwards - nope. take it from a man who literally gave everything - seven figure everything - and gives 80 percent of his paycheck to ex because i was stupid enought to sign something i would to get her back. ignore her - do kid stuff through something called family wizard - and move on - i wished i would have listened. why would you want to be with someone who caused you so much hurt and put herself before her kids....