Really, I think you should completely up-end your life and move to wherever your W suggests; that will bring her around.
^^^ ROFL! Telemark, this made me laugh. Thanks! That would be NG thing to do, wouldn't it?!
On a serious note: IF she moved, I am going to pray about it. I am going to make the best decision for ME and my S. Now, I not going to doing anything spiteful, like move in the opposite direction, tempting as it may be. I know my W's patterns, too, and her family's patterns for that matter. She could up there, be there for 2 years, and move again. Who knows?