Sorry to read about the FB photos, whg, but I suppose it's her way of dealing with the mess that is living inside her. When my W told me she was moving out I took down every picture that had her in it and put them away. I also de-friended her on FB. Was that petty and immature? Maybe, but I knew I could not deal with the emotional turmoil that looking at those pictures or at her FB page would cause.

I don't think she did it as much to hurt you as she did it to not hurt herself.

Just my $.02...

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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