Really, I think you should completely up-end your life and move to wherever your W suggests; that will bring her around. As if your son doesn't already have enough upheaval in his life...
Good job on holding it together, though and great job on letting her know you are living large! You are letting your son see how a real man can handle adversity - not with self-pity and misery but by kicking adversity right in the teeth.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
