Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

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By pleasant I mean when we are talking with about the kids or currently our agreement. At this moment we are not fighting or arguing.

Do I know what is going to happen down the line nope. Do I hope things get better and we have a stronger marriage after all this and she gets this out of her system YES. My kids deserve a loving household. Either way right now is about Me when I have my kids its about US.
I plan on less contact with her in the coming weeks. Instead of me picking up my kids from school and taking them home they will be coming with me to my mother house. This will limit my time with my wife.

As for the presents I got for her. Were bought over the summer and also picked out by my kids. I wplan on getting them to do some art crafts next weekend for her. As well as picking up flowers for her.

Yourlast paragraph does make sense. Thank you