C2H,

You have to stop being the victim here. You can't control her or her choices. You CAN be the best dad you can. I can't understand how 20 min can make the difference between 86 and 36. Not for the life of me.

And as for my ex and I making it work. Here's news for you. He sees his son more often now that he is 3 hours away than he did when he worked right around the corner. Go figure!

Barb