How is it SUPPOSED to work?

[grebjack]

I can attest that there are MANY human powered flight methods that will not work...

I love that image! Thanks!

I do think it's interesting that you worry that others might find you incompetent... There's something there that might suggest self doubt which often points to feelings of being unworthy... and of not trusting yourself capable...

I see this a lot in the colleagues I most respect. It is almost as if the fear of incompetence is what drove them, and me, to become however competent we are. Self-doubt? Yep. I routinely bite off more than I can chew, and I'm pleasantly surprised if I succeed anyway and kinda pissed off when I (predictably) don't, but yeah, I always go into those things unsure of whether I can pull it off or not. I started this Divorce Busting stuff with a WHOLE lot of doubts as to whether I could make it work, where "work" didn't mean to me a process of self-discovery - I meant "it's never too late to save your marriage."

Scarcity isn't just a monetary or objectification thing... sometimes we have scarcity of love or scarcity of connectedness or scarcity of spirituality or... scarcity of knowledge...

I'll lay claim to a scarcity of romantic love, but that's not something I think I'm choosing to impose on myself. I would be thrilled to reconcile my relationship with my husband. I suppose I could also find romantic love by giving up on H and finding someone else. But, at least at the moment, I'm not prepared to love another man back. Use him to prop up my ego, maybe, but not love.

Gotta end this message before my battery dies...