NB, about your "more rant". Ignore the affair. Yep. Trust me, right now, he's all messed up in the head. Think of it like that. Even try to get a sense of humor about it, if you can. He's gone ALIEN.
The thing with A's is the last thing the spouse is going to want to admit to, is that they're failing at the A too. Do not MENTION the A again.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
