Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

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Telemark Thanks. My issue with the DB book right now is we are pleasant to each other and get along just fine. She got upset that I figured out she was seeing someone thats when the walls went up. Other then that we were together with the kids this past Saturday all day and had a blast. It felt like we were a family again.
My attorney told me to put in the agreement that we should do counseling. I also know if it goes to a D the court can request this as well.
I did everything she asked of me to do. I am still looking for new work. That is the one thing I have not done which is leave my families business. All I am asking her for is to have a nice conversation.
I plan on having limited contact with her after next week. I will be taking my kids with me the weeknights I see them. So I will not talk with her during the week. I will see her on weekends I have to pick them up though, which is every other.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder I hope.

Do couples on this site reconcile?