Upside Down

[Coyote]

For now, if I were you I would hang out here. From what I see your situation is still fresh. Later, as you get by the initial, 'what the?!' you can move on to see what's up with things and look at it in more detail. At the moment, you need to focus on the simple stuff and get them in order. One thing at a time, steady as it goes...

I've noticed that a us Vets who are looking to help do tend to spend some more time in the Newcomers section. More help seems to be needed here.

As a side issue, I've seen there are a number of us Vets here who have a lot experience with MLC issues, myself included.
Yes, I do see MLC patterns here but right now I wouldn't worry about dissecting that. Save that for when things are a little more settled.

Have you read Michelle's 'Divorce Busting' book? If not, start that now. It will give you good grounding on how to approach this whole thing, don't wait on this.

Next, you should read her 'Divorce Remedy.' It's basically a continuation of the previous. Later, when you're in a better place, certainly. Check out other material. No doubt, just make sure it's well recommended though. Not worth the waste of time and money if it's junk (bin' there...I've read 'a lot' over the last six years actually.)

Keep us posted.