What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

I've been talking to SIL since the beginning of all this. I think our relationship is pretty good, but since she is my W's sister, I can only take what she says with a grain of salt.

My SIL is of the mindset that I need to give her space and work on myself and our kids, but that was before she knew about the A and the OM (supposedly).

When I gave her some details about what I knew, she was in disbelief and gave me some reasons why she thought that way. I, in turn, explained that I thought the same way she did until I had proof, then that opened my eyes to a lot of other things that now make more sense.

I know that DB says to stay away from you W's family, but they are my family too. I realize that they will likely side with my W, but they too need to be aware of things that my W isn't telling them or lying to them about. It's not about getting those on my side or my W's side, it's about what's right and what's wrong and looking out for myself and our kids.