I am still haunted by my H's EA with his co-worker. But trying real hard not think about it.
When my H and were together, I was not happy with myself. I had a hard time losing weight after the baby was born. Not that I was fat, but I weighed more than I was used to. But now, I have lost 25 lbs and I just love it. I catch myself looking in the mirror and smiling. My H thought it was a reflection him as well. But it wasn't.