I am still haunted by my H's EA with his co-worker. But trying real hard not think about it.

When my H and were together, I was not happy with myself. I had a hard time losing weight after the baby was born. Not that I was fat, but I weighed more than I was used to. But now, I have lost 25 lbs and I just love it. I catch myself looking in the mirror and smiling. My H thought it was a reflection him as well. But it wasn't.

Hang in there.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)