Sounds like things are decent enough, Huh... good to hear...

Don't forget that people in general don't like in others the same things we don't like about ourselves... so people project...

You W may not like other people being controlling because she (unconsciously) doesn't like it about herself, and so on...

Like the wild rabbit, nothing you can do about it... until she understands those basic principles, she won't change them.

It's just for you to understand so you don't have to react...