Mr Bond & sayitaintso- thank you so much for the replies!
I have a real inward struggle with not pursuing. I feel like if I let go, deattach, then it will be so easy for her to accept us moving on with separate lives. In other words she won't make the efforts needed to reconcile on her own. I feel like I have to pursue somewhat to keep it alive, but DB'ing wisdom says not to pursue. With this in mind I have been accepting whatever we have been sharing in common, keeping cool about it, and enjoying it outwardly.
The fact that she appears to not be moving away from me emotionally any longer, nor actively working to create distance, nor talking about moving out seems good. There's this limbo and unknown which is really tough for me.
