WHG - I think if she would truly "find herself" and fix those issues, I believe there's a possibility she would want to go back to being M'd again. I can only hope that she gets enough taste of D and reality that she realizes it isn't all it's she thought it would be and it's not going to fix anything. Hopefully she'll see how much it sux. I hope she'll get just enough exposure to take it out of her playbook forever. I've had several observations that the stress and problems she complained about have just followed her.
Would I want to go back? To what we had before? Absolutely not! There are some good parts, of course, that I'd like to retain. However, I've made a lot of changes in my own life. I would want her to make positive, believable changes of her own. I would want her to be on board with the positive changes I've made in my own life. My desire is to rebuild from the ground up.
Ditto.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
