wife had affair and now a divorce as well

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I am in the same boat. My wife and I separated 6 months ago and she is now with a guy from our building that has paid a lot of attention to her. I don't see this working out. We are getting a separation agreement worked up she said to me she was not filing. I don't know what to do. I have my therapy tonight so that worked out well cause I found all this out last night. I spoke with some friends and they all said what I thought. Work on me and concentrate on me and my two kids. The big question is can or would I take her back. My heart says yes she is the mother of my children and I do love her, but my mind knows what it knows. Could I be intimate with her could I look at her without thinking what I know? I don't know.