Well then JB I feel doubly sorry for you! smile because I know exactly what you're going through...

So then do you have any sense or feel that, should your W ever go "find herself" and fix those issues she says are debilitating her, she would want to be M again? And would you want to go back?

Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD