We haven't discussed specifics but she would be contributing towards the mortgage/utilities which she currently is not.
Kids are 15, 9, & 6. The 15 year old has stayed w/ me at my house this entire time. I definitely think this will throw a kink in their expectations but am not sure exactly how they will react.
Just recently they have been asking in front of my w and I when is mom coming home, why can't mom just sleep on the couch, etc.. She says she gets this from them alot but I rarely get asked by them. I responded with let mom and I work that out and we are doing our best.
I don't know how this would affect a possible R, and whether it would be a good move or not if that is my long term goal. Guess I'll give it more time.
