My wife and I got a divorce 14 months ago. It was the ILBNILWY thing. There was no infidelity, abuse, substance problems, etc. Truly the biggest issue was that I took for granted that she would always be there (I know this now, but didn't realize it then). We were friends for many years before dating and married for nearly ten years when divorced. We have two seven year old twins.
She asked me to move back in around March of this year. I moved back out in August (at her request). Tonight, I found out that she is dating another man. It was like a shotgun blast to the chest. I still love my exwife and would do anything to get her back. I am having a hard time dealing with this. I really have no idea what to do.
Though I understand that it is none of my business if/when/who she starts dating, it's tearing me apart inside. If anyone could offer me any advice or encouragement, I would appreciate it. I'm really at a total loss right now.
