Km2ct Please know that I mean well with what I'm about to say:
1. Your husband is emotionally abusive, you've admitted this yourself, abuse is abuse no matter what shape it takes. Would you like your children to grow up with abuse being a normal or even expected thing?
2. He's trapped you before? This is physical abuse. He is using his size and strength to physically intimidate you. Once again do you want your children exposed to this?
3. I see a lot of secong guessing in your latest post this is quite troublesome. I get the impression you may be trying to excuse his behavior.
4. He is nowhere near even being close to being repentant. He has no incentive to change so he won't, especially if you keep running back to him.
5. Blaming others for his lack of control is classic abuser. Its ok to say someone made you mad, its unacceptable for them to blame their lack of control on you.
Ok so he hasn't hit you yet, he sure has no problem intimidating you with the threat of implied physical violence. Is this the type of home you want? What of your boys would you like it if they wound up in prison for being spouse abusers?
Its true that we don't see what you see. Nonetheless something smells rotten.
Now that I got all that out of the way, please continue posting. you'll find that folks genuinely care around here and we want what is best for each other.
