Unsure Where Marriage Is Headed

[leopoldstotch]

Well sandi her complaints about me are that I have a "you only live once" attitude towards our finances meaning I would spend our money on things we didn't need instead of paying the bills but that stopped a while ago and I have recently taken charge of paying the bills. Another big complaint of hers is that when we do argue I always have to be right. It has been some time since we've had an argument since I've made the decision not to go back at my W when she is upset with something.

Other complaints if you can call them that are that we have nothing in common, we never liked eachother and we don't like eachother, we aren't the affectionate type. That's about all I can recall right now. Presently I would say our sitch is in limbo. I'm not telling her I love her. I'm acting as if nothing is wrong and I'm not talking about our M at all. Even though we are still under the same roof I am following the advice in the DR. Thx for the replies and please keep them coming.