Conversation topics, let's see...we're both social workers so that should take up pretty much all our discussion time lol. From the way she writes she was not born here, Hong Kong I'm guessing. I've been there numerous times. So we have that we can talk about. When she came here, where she went to school...blah blah blah Then there's our kids, we both have them. Then there's "what do you do for fun" hobbies, sports etc. She likes ping pong, skating, cooking, traveling and movies. Hey, and as an added bonus, being a Chinese social worker maybe she's worked for my STBX...wouldn't that be a fun conversation to have lol. So, I think I'm OK on the conversation part. Wow, so much to think about for one little coffee date! But, bottom line is you gotta do the work if you want the payoff. I wonder if she puts out on the first coffee date? I'll ask if there's ever a lull in the conversation. It's always good to have something to fall back on