Itm, you do what you feel is best. If you think it is the time to let him know you accept responsibility for your actions, but not for his, while you are in the counselors office, then you should be a part of your own counseling. Or you could continue with what you're doing now. I don't think his head will explode if you are allowed in your own counseling session to speak your mind. I think that is what counseling is for.
