I had an MLC. It took 2 or 3 years to reaslise that was even what was happening (but eventually, when you look back over a couple of years of your life and you realise you've been depressed, lethagic, dissatisfied, making huge decisions that impact on heaps of people but don't lead to any increased level of happiness ... even the slow ones like me figure out there must have been something going on!!!).

Then it took another year or so to identify it and really start the work on healing difficult childhood trauma and all the subsequent issues that trauma had contributed to as a adult.

Two years later - I'm healed, but I'm a different woman and I'll never be that pre-lifetransition woman again.

Could that all happen in 3 months? It would be a terrible missed opportunity for personal development - and if he really is a candidate for midlife transition, it would be a shame for him to not have had the time to go through the full process and cycle.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.